Leaving
depression behind
by Ulla Sebastian
Depression is more than that sense of
feeling "down" or discouraged at times when things are not going well. Depression
involves sadness, pessimism, a preoccupation with personal problems,
and perhaps self-pity, anguish, crying, and hopelessness.
Symptoms of depression can range from mild
versions such as temporary withdrawal, low energy, tiredness and
sleeping problems over moderate forms such as feelings of inadequacy or
worthlessness, decreased productivity, poor concentration or poor
appetite to severe symptoms of recurrent thoughts of death or suicide.
There are many reasons why you might feel
depressed. You may undergo major life changes such as divorce,
separation, loss of a job, retirement or moving town. Or you may feel
unhappy about your marital situation or fear physical and mental
problems of old age. Or you may be sensitive to the change of seasons.
As we enter the dark time of the year, you may suffer from the lack of
light.
Depression may also occur without any outer
trigger. Perfectionism, low self worth, mood swings, dissatisfaction
with life, the chronic use of alcohol or other drugs or even prescribed
medications may lead to depression.
There are many effective ways to deal
with depression.
You can use exercises to increase
the energy level which has a major impact in dealing with depression.
Depressed people mostly use shallow upper breathing. The chest is
collapsed and in breath seems to be difficult. The Latin word for
“breathing in” is inspirare, a word which we find in inspiration and to
inspire. If the breath is shallow, you may lack inspiration. Exercises
help to increase the breath and in this way the level of inspiration.
You can learn to control your thoughts
and feelings and replace the typical negative thought habits that
focus on problems and faults with a realistic appraisal of the small
successes and joys of life that we all experience no matter how
challenging the conditions may be.
You may explore new activities and
interests that give you satisfaction, help you to feel good about
yourself, and keep the mind off problems and negative thoughts and
emotions. On top of it, they open the door to meet like minded people,
improve conversation skills and help in making and keeping friends.
You can replace bad habits of
blaming, criticising and expecting the worst through assertiveness
skills, good problem-solving skills, positive thinking and humour.
The most difficult part may be to get
the first step and then keep walking towards a self-empowered life.
To support you, I offer a range of options suitable for each pocket.
I offer on my website free articles and
a free course with suggestions of how you can cope with depression.
The Ebook ‘Beyond suffering’ will help you to discover the
four pillars of how to grow joy in your life and provide tools
for transforming restrictive life patterns on the mental, emotional and
physical level.
Sometimes, a depression may reach so deep
that it may feel like a task too big to even start the journey out of
it.
This deep-rooted resignation has to do with
the underlying energetic structure that keeps depressive thought forms,
habits and feelings in place. For basic shifts to happen the
body-mind-system needs rewiring so that new options become
available in order to successfully cope with depression.
The distance courses provide a
continuous support by shifting the resonance with those energetic
patterns that keep the depression in place
Dr. Ulla Sebastian is a well-known author,
trainer and psychotherapist. Her work spans a wide range of themes for
professional and personal growth and is the result of forty years of
research, work with thousands of people from all over the world and a
lifelong experience of selfgrowth and transformation. Visit her website
http://www.visioform.com for free courses, distance courses, books,
ebooks and articles.
Ulla Sebastian may be contacted at http://www.visioform.com
or publish@visioform.com
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