How To
Cope With Stress- 3 Simple Steps
by Cecil McIntosh
Attack and conquer deadly killer stress.
In my 14 years of teaching relaxation/meditation
most of my clients have admitted that stress is an issue they have
ignored.
You ignore stress because it does not attack you
like a big bang. Stress gradually creeps up on while you're looking the
other way. It only becomes evident once it has wormed its way into your
body and mind with aches and pains that grow unbearable.
You can attack killer stress using three basic
rules.
Step 1
You need to start your day in a stress-free
natural state. In a stress-free natural state, your cells have recharge
and you are experiencing a wonderful flow of energy.
A stress-free state does not use coffee, alcohol,
cigarettes or pain killers to bring about relaxation.
A natural stress-free state involves having the
awesome feeling of relaxation by habitually practicing to relax.
Practicing also helps you conquer killer stress.
You can use mantras, guided, meditation,
affirmations, soothing music or anchoring(anchoring allows you to
access a particluar state of mind at will). The natural stress-free
state prepares your mind and body for the onslaught of stress attacks
that you will face during the day.
Relaxation soothes the soul (especially in these
busy times) and it helps you brace yourself for nerve-shattering killer
stress.
Step 2
Just imagine you wrote a 500 word sentence with
one period. The sentence would make no sense at all. But by adding
punctuation to the sentence, its meaning would become clear. When you
punctuate your days with relaxation, you let go of stress.
Your life needs to be regularly punctuated in
order to attack killer stress. This means that you need to take a quiet
break at lunch time and do another relaxation exercise.
I have heard all kinds of excuse over the years,
but when you take the time (to do a relaxation exercise at lunch time)
you will be amazed at the profound results. Killer stress will be
neutralized.
Step 3
Let's assume you have difficulty with Step 2, then
Step 3 can become your powerful rescuer.
Again at the end of the day you need to quietly
punctuate the sentence of your daily living. Going nonstop all day
without punctuation, or pause, creates all kind of stress. It also
increases your vulnerability to killer stress.
Step 3 simply states that you separate work from
home by doing a relaxation exercise before going home.
The purpose of this exercise is to help you knock
out killer stress. It allows you to recharge your energies so that you
can spend time with friends, family and love ones.
One pleasant and simple relaxation exercise is
listening to whatever music you consider soothing. This has to be done
either before you enter the house or the first thing you do after
entering the house.
If you are self employed or work from home then
you need to adjust when to do the relaxation exercises.
In summary: you need to relax three time a day in
order to knock out deadly killer stress.
Step 1 reminds you do a relaxation exercise in the
morning to recharge your energies and prepare for the attacks of deadly
killer stress.
Step 2 reminds you that you need to punctuate your
life with relaxation exercise at lunch time in order to attack deadly
killer stress.
Step 3 helps you separate work from home so that
you can attack and conquer deadly killer stress and enjoy a life other
than work. This will leave you stress free to stop and smell the roses.
Cecil McIntosh is a Hypnotherapist, NLP Trainer
and Energy worker specializing in providing a gifted teacher's shortcut
relaxation resources to his clients. For a free 7 day relaxation course
visit this site now. http://www.emptyyourcup.com
Cecil McIntosh may be contacted at http://www.emptyyourcup.com
or cecil@nlp-meditation.com